Boyfriend still online dating
When you find your boyfriend is still on a dating site, you have two choices really.
You can confront him or you can downgrade him and pull back from the relationship.
I did this once and the next day he emailed me the confirmations from Match that he had indeed cancelled his account and I didn’t have to ask him to do it.
He did it on his own and problem was resolved with no drama. you need to seriously consider if it’s time to walk away from the relationship: If a man is still active on a dating site, his options are open and you options should remain open as well. Listen to these two classes to really deal with this the Goddessy Way: “How To be High Value And Easy To Lose And How It Can Inspire Men To Step Up” and “How To Manage Your Emotional Investment When He’s Been Stepping Up But Hasn’t Claimed You.” Even when he has claimed you verbally, your job to observe never stops.
Often men like you enough to move things forward, but they just aren’t all in yet.
They keep these secrets because they fear your emotional reaction.
If instead you jump to conclusions, you risk introducing anger and defensiveness, both of which are notorious for making the truth both harder to express and harder to detect.
He’s not necessarily a bad man, but he just hasn’t arrived emotionally.
They are constantly on guard for something to go wrong and checking a dating site for the guy they are dating is part of their ritual. When a man is committed to you he is committed to contributing to your happiness as well.
If this is you, stop right here and please check out the Journey Inward and start doing some inner work. You won’t likely find him still active on a dating site.
I don’t care what he tells you or what excuse he gives.
Unless he is a complete idiot, he is aware this would not make you happy.