When to start dating again after divorce
"Daydreaming happens because all the other things make you start to feel hopeless," said the 30-year-old mediator.
"Lack of personal, intimate exchange in a marriage is a very bad sign, especially if you are talking to others.""There is a definite lack of interest in sex and they don't communicate about it and don't do anything about it," says Dawn Cardi, a matrimonial lawyer of 28 years, currently in private practice in Manhattan., the arguments are redundant and never get resolved.One of the most important aspects of a healthy marriage is mutual respect, says Savage.When that's gone—when one partner consistently feels dismissed, rejected, and condescended to (and the other partner doesn't see it or refuses to talk through it), you're in a bad place.Kaye."Some men—and stereotypically this is men—are just not cut out for marriage; they are unable to remain monogamous, even if they seemed to have wanted to get married," says Bowman.What's worse, they manage to put the blame for their philandering and untrustworthiness on you, usually for being too jealous or controlling.