Online dating first phone call topics

You can read my prior articles for Psychology Today here. Why: Helps you plan future dates but also gives you an opportunity to choose not to pursue dating someone who has very incompatible food preferences from you. Purchase my book The Anxiety Toolkit You can get an email alert whenever Dr Alice Boyes writes a new blog article - Subscribe.If there's one thing that can ruin a first date and ensure a woman's first impression of you is a bad one, it's crappy conversation.You need ice breakers, light-hearted queries, questions that provoke banter, laughter, and thought, as well as questions that dig a bit deeper and go beyond the superficial. If she hates planes, road trips, or has no desire to leave her hometown ever, that's a good indicator of her ambitions and desires (or lackthereof).Surprisingly, the first phone call in an online dating relationship can be tricky even if you’ve been feeling comfortable up until this point.There’s just something about hearing her voice and being put on the spot that can suddenly leave you tongue tied or sounding like a caveman.

The examples below are intended to stimulate your own ideas rather than as rules. Why: Is the person about to make any major life changes e.g., leave their 0K/year job to go back to school? Do they see it as a job, a vocation, or are they primarily motivated by climbing the career ladder? Why: You likely have a preference one way or the other. However it's good to know what you're getting yourself in for before you start to get attached to someone. Why: Do they spend a lot of money or time collecting something? The answers to the above questions aren't necessarily deal breakers.I know this is the age of texting, but that’s exactly why an actual phone call will help you stand out.Texting is impersonal – practically an afterthought. Have Some Questions in Mind Before Calling If you think you can wing it, good luck.

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